Today we’re delighted to have a guest blog post by Constance Ray, the founder of Recovery Well, on getting back on track after substance abuse relapse.
Contance Ray started Recoverywell.org with the goal of creating a safe place for people to share how addiction has affected them, whether they are combating it themselves or watching someone they care about work to overcome it. The goal is to share stories of hope from survivors who know that the fight against addiction is one worth having, because no matter how it affects you, life can get better.
Many people understand the battle against substance abuse; for millions of people, drugs and alcohol play a big role in relieving stress, anxiety, and the symptoms of depression, but unfortunately, substances only contribute to the problem–or exacerbate it. Because using drugs or alcohol to cope only numbs the issue and doesn’t get rid of it, many individuals find that after making the decision to live a sober lifestyle, they are unable to deal with their feelings in a healthy way, which leads to a relapse. This can in turn lead to guilt, shame, and even thoughts of suicide.
That’s why it’s so important to learn how to cope with stress, anxiety, and depression in ways that will make you feel strong and empowered. Having the support of your friends and/or family will go a long way, as will working to get your body healthy. This will allow you to see that even after a relapse, you have the power to turn things around for good.
Keep reading for some great tips on how to get healthy after suffering a relapse.
Seek professional help
One of the biggest keys to living a sober life is realizing that you can’t get there on your own. It’s imperative that you seek professional help so that you can address any physical or mental health issues that may be underlying. Starting at the root of the problem will help you find success much more easily when it comes to staying sober.
Forgive yourself
True recovery is impossible without the ability to forgive yourself for past mistakes. Understanding that all humans have inner struggles–and deal with them in different ways–will help you come to a place where you can love yourself, and therefore heal. Consider practicing yoga and/or meditation, which will incorporate mindfulness into your day. Learning to focus your mental energies on positive things rather than worry or stress will help immensely when it comes to your recovery.
Come up with a plan
It’s important to have a plan in place when it comes to your sobriety. Creating a step-by-step plan–as well as a routine to get there–will help you stay on track and find daily motivation for sobriety. For instance, you might set some small goals, such as working out every day or eating healthfully, and create a routine to make that happen. Having a plan in place will allow you to feel in control, which is important to many individuals in recovery.
Take up a hobby
Having a hobby can be hugely beneficial to those in recovery. Not only is it good for your mental health, it can help you get active, stay social, and will provide structure to your day. For many people who have battled substance abuse, the ability to know what comes next is important. Think about your interests and look online for activities that you’ll enjoy. Gardening, playing a sport, making art, and rock climbing are all great ideas. For more on how staying active can help your recovery, click here.
Stay connected
It’s common for individuals in recovery to have trouble staying social, especially after suffering a relapse. There may be feelings of guilt or shame involved, or you may be worried that your friends and loved ones are judging you. But having a connection with other people can be a big help for your sobriety, and it will give you a circle of support when things get tough. Make an effort to stay connected to your loved ones, even if it’s only through text messages.
