In today’s blog, we’re delighted to have spoken to author and writing coach, Greta Solomon.

Greta talked to us about the health benefits of journaling and how she’s helping women tap into this empowering and therapeutic pastime through her new book Heart, Sass & Soul. 

Tell us about your new book

Heart, Sass & Soul is a warm, honest, deeply supportive guide to journaling your way to a life that not only looks good – but feels good. One where you’re not trying to be an all-round girl boss / vixen / superwoman who rises at dawn to slay like Beyoncé. Instead, you’re aiming to be more and more YOURSELF, because that’s where your true power lies.

There has never been a better time to be your own guru. Freewriting and journaling in the ways laid out in this book can be life-changing – for all the right reasons. They put you in charge of what YOU think and feel, which is a welcome relief in this hyper connected world. And while there are lots of beautiful journals on the market, there are very few comprehensive guides on how to USE them to create magic and meaning in your life.

Why did you write this book?

I wanted to show people exactly HOW to journal. Not in a 1-2-3 step kind of way. But how to access the deeper parts of you, and how to clear the creative blocks that may stop you from journaling in the first place.

Writing has unlocked so many doors for me (and not just because I became a journalist who got paid to interview celebrities, go to events and drink champagne at parties)! Through my life and work I realised that through writing I ask for things that I wouldn’t dare speak out loud. Better still, I could write things into existence. Things that were never there before, except for wishes or dreams in my head. And when there were very dark, difficult times, writing has been a helpful friend. My mother committed suicide 11 years ago and writing helped me to heal and chart a new path.

From a professional point of view, I began writing this book in 2016 at a time when I needed a break from my business. I had spent four years pitching, developing, creating and delivering business writing workshops (alongside being pregnant and then a new mum).  And I needed to get back in touch with myself. I cleared my schedule with the aim of doing nothing in particular. And that’s when the yearnings, inklings and frantic writing began. After years of writing to order, I finally wrote what I wanted to write. At first it was like clearing the phlegm from my writing throat. But soon, the channel was open, and the essence of this book flowed. As did a workshop in writing for creative self-expression which sold out within hours. I knew I was onto something and I began to realise the true power of writing for creative self-expression.

We didn’t realise that writing and journaling could be so empowering. What are the other health benefits of journaling?

 Psychologists have found that expressive writing (where you write about thoughts and feelings) results in fewer doctor visits and can even boost the immune system in the short-term. It can help you to recover from depression, find happiness and make you feel better about yourself and your life. In Heart, Sass & Soul, I show readers exactly how to journal in order to overcome self-doubt and develop a new creative identity; transform dark times into something beautiful; find moments for healing themselves without judgement and to become empowered with uninhibited self-expression. I also love the fact that all you need to journal is a notebook and a pen. Journaling is cheap and can pretty much be done anytime and anywhere. It literally puts the power of self-care and wellbeing into your own hands.

What is your link with St Kitts and Nevis?

 My dad and his family are originally from St Kitts and my dad grew up in Nevis. We actually lived in Nevis for a year when I was five before returning back to the UK, to London. So these island have always been an integral part of my life.

Is there anything else you’d like to tell our readers?

 My mission is to build a thriving community of empowered, self-expressed women, who know exactly what they think and feel, who can face uncomfortable emotions head on, access their higher wisdom and tap into the creative current of life.  Meaning is made from walking through loss and grief, not from dancing around it. And a joy-filled life is not only possible, but inevitable when you are creatively free. When you are ready to answer the call, I’d be honoured to be your guide.

Where can our readers order a copy of Heart, Sass & Soul?

Heart, Sass & Soul by Greta Solomon is published on 15 April 2019, and is available to pre-order now on Amazon.

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Special Offer!

We’re delighted to say that Greta is offering a free writing masterclass worth £77 for everyone who pre-orders Heart, Sass & Soul before 15 April. To claim that gift please visit https://www.gretasolomon.com/preorder-gift-with-heart-sass-soul

About Greta Solomon 

Greta Solomon is a British journalist turned writing coach and the author of Heart, Sass & Soul: Journal Your Way to Inspiration and Happiness. In 2006, she discovered a talent for helping people overcome the blocks, fears and shame that stops them from fully expressing themselves. Through talks, workshops and online programs, she teaches real-world writing techniques and inspires others to live rich, full lives. Her work has been featured in Forbes.com, The Numinous and The Huffington Post. She is a published poet and songwriter, a psychology graduate, certified life coach, trained lifelong learning teacher and holds a specialist certificate in lyric writing from Berklee College of Music. She lives in London with her husband and their daughter.

And, you can find Greta on Instagram and on twitter

The Barbados Association of Endometriosis and PCOS (BAEP) recently published ‘Invisible Not Imaginary’, a collection of short stories that aims to put the spotlight on endometriosis, fibroids, PCOS and dysmenorrhea. The book seeks to raise awareness of the impact of these conditions on the lives of those directly and indirectly affected.

This mostly fictional book invites you to dive into the lives of a variety of people as they navigate life with one of the above-mentioned conditions. Through Invisible Not Imaginary we explore the experience of adolescents, young women, mothers, working professionals and fathers.

Why We Love this Book

We thought Invisible Not Imaginary was a powerful and insightful read. It bravely explores issues like heavy menstrual bleeding, painful periods and infertility – common symptoms of these conditions. It also identifies the insensitivity, lack of empathy and the insecurities that women with these conditions encounter and experience.

Furthermore, the book causes the reader to reflect on the wide-spread normalisation of abnormal menstrual symptoms, the enormous pressure women feel to keep going despite feeling unwell and how invisible and misunderstood many women with these conditions feel.

The stories are very moving providing an honest, open account of the pain, isolation, upheaval, disruption and uncertainty caused by these gynaecological conditions which tend to be trivialised and disregarded because they are not life-threatening but as these stories clearly demonstrate, they significantly affect the quality of life, health and wellbeing of the many women who are affected.

We could relate to many of the experiences and believe the stories will resonate with most, if not all, women because of our shared menstrual experience.  Many women have a story about their menstrual health which they are hesitant to talk about; this book tells our story and gives us all a voice.

This collection of short stories is an excellent and creative way of raising awareness. It really brings the issues to life in a powerful way and leaves the reader feeling disturbed by the challenges faced by those affected by these conditions.

This Book Challenges Us All

This book challenges society to address the health inequalities that exist in public health where conditions like these receive little attention, yet affect so many.

Sadly, discussions about women’s health or reproductive health tend to omit conditions like fibroids and it’s time for a greater focus on these conditions and more balance so that all women’s health issues are deemed important.

Well Done BAEP!

We applaud BAEP on all the great work they have conducted to add some context and depth to the discussion on these women’s health issues and believe this will be an effective resource for awareness and educational work in a range of settings – schools, colleges, medical schools, book clubs, the health sector’s continuous professional development programme and more.

More Information

For more information on Invisible Not Imaginary and how you can order copies, please visit BAEP’s website here or you can send them an email

Also, you can read a summary of our fibroids and endometriosis Twitter chat with Julia Mandeville the co-founder of BAEP here

We had the pleasure of reading Women in Black, a new book by IC Blackman. This book was an insightful, emotional and thought-provoking journey of the intergenerational trauma caused by slavery.

An Overview of Women in Black

Women in Black consists of a collection of short stories connected by family (the Nesbitts and the Tibbins), a much-loved brand of chocolate (Nesbitt’s Chocolate), delicious sweet potato pone and an old colonial home (Halycon’s Crest). This connection was a nice surprise, one we weren’t expecting at all, but really liked as it brought some intrigue to the stories. So much so that once we noticed these links, we stopped and re-read a few chapters to make sure we understood the various different connections that explored the experience of several generations of a family.

The book starts with ‘The Baying of the Bloodhounds’ which is set in Trinidad in the late 1700s and follows the story of Ezra Tibbins, a runaway slave making her way to freedom while being pursued by her owner’s bloodhounds. As Ezra tries to make her way to freedom we’re swept along her emotional journey of strength, hard decisions and her commitment to finding freedom on her own terms.

From there we move on to ‘Bridal Shop’ which takes us forward in time to Trinidad in the 1950s/60s. Here we are met with Chief Bridal Shop Assistant Pamela Tibbins and read about her humble beginnings, hunger for the good life, grand ambitions and explore how she navigates her life. Will she break free or succumb to the challenges of her lot in life?

In ‘Bitter Dark Chocolate’ we’re transported to Trinidad in the 1990s and join widowed, retired nurse Selma Nesbitt-Payne who makes her regular visits to Ward 504 to visit its patients. This story isn’t what is seems and is best described by the author herself:

“This story takes us into the world of a retired psychiatry Sister who once worked on Ward 504. It uses surrealism to explore the unappreciated outcomes of unchecked privilege: guilt, suspicion and ultimately a tortured existence, despite the best intentions and material comforts.”

 From here we are introduced to the mother and daughter calypso duo, Big Titi and Little Dee, in ‘Big Titi and Little Dee’s Grand Piano.’ Here we meet two generations of the Tibbins family, whose poverty and what appears to be the Tibbins curse leads them to a turbulent life. Sadly, despite all the talent and potential in the world, they too are unable to break free of the intergenerational trauma inflicted on their family.

Then we get to the final story  in Women in Black, ‘Housewife – The Five Acts of Elspeth Sweetening.’ Will there be redemption for this troubled family, will they finally break free from intergenerational trauma. We’ll let you find out 😉

Our Thoughts on Women in Black

 This was an emotional and, at times, difficult read providing insight into the intergenerational trauma caused by slavery. A trauma that has not been sufficiently addressed.

As we read this book, we were reminded of Dr Joy DeGruy’s Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome (PTSS) theory, a topic that we were introduced to many years ago.

IC Blackman very emotionally and poetically gives an illustration of Dr DeGruy’s theory of how: “Slavery produced centuries of physical, psychological and spiritual injury” and highlights the importance of understanding PTSS and the themes raised in IC Blackman’s book so that we can lay: “the groundwork for understanding how the past has influenced the present, and open up the discussion of how we can use the strengths we have gained to heal.”  (Dr DeGruy).

This is a good read, that challenges us in many ways, both in the subject matter and in the way it is written – this is a complex and deep writer who uses satire, dark humour, magic realism, surrealism , Trinidadian folklore and an advanced writing style, so you do have to engage your brain from the very beginning. Once you do, you’re in for an interesting literary experience.

More Information

To find out more about Women In Black you can visit Amazon or IC Blackman’s website, and you can follow IC Blackman on Twitter .

Additionally,  you can check out other books we’ve read here.

We just finished reading Flow Fighter: How I Kicked My Fibroids and Heavy Periods to the Curb by Holly Bridges. We thought this was a very insightful and informative book that not only explores the personal experience of the author but that of other women, young and old, with fibroids, endometriosis and heavy menstrual bleeding. In this book we also hear from gynaecologists, young doctors, women’s health advocates and sexual health experts and through all these perspectives readers are given a comprehensive view of the fibroids experience.

We were also taken on an educational journey with the author having conducted extensive research into fibroids, other gynaecological conditions and heavy menstrual bleeding. The book explains, in detail, the latest warnings from the FDA and Health Canada on laparoscopic power morcellators and the drug Esmya. Helpfully and impressively we’re provided with:

• Timelines that provide context and background to these warnings,
• Letters, quotes, summaries of research, recommendations and reports from all interested parties on both sides of the argument of these warnings – the FDA, Health Canada, gynaecologists and other government agencies

The above facts were interspersed with commentary from the author which gave us some good background into both issues.

Our educational journey continued with a reminder of the structure and function of the women’s reproductive system, what fibroids are and what constitutes heavy menstrual bleeding.  The book covered all the treatment options for fibroids and what their pros and cons are. The author also reflects on the injustices that exist with respect to women’s health where the lack of focus on conditions like fibroids mean:

• There are still major gaps in research;
• There is a significant delay in the diagnosis of many women leading to years of unnecessary suffering;
• There is no clear understanding of the cause of fibroids and the best approaches to treat women;
• We have a healthcare system that is not patient-centred leading to women feeling isolated and confused.

Author Holly Bridges also discusses the reasons why hysterectomies are so common, why doctors recommend invasive treatments over non-invasive approaches, and why this needs to change.

At the core of this book is the message that women need to be empowered with all the information they need to make an informed decision about their treatment.

The format of the book is useful with many chapters ending with a list of takeaway messages. In addition, the author, throughout the book, refers readers to useful resources. These include books, research papers, videos and websites.

The book ends with a chapter entitled ‘Empowering Our Daughters’ which we thought was very important section because there is a need to ensure that the generations of women who follow have a better experience.

The only topic that we felt was missing was a discussion on the impact of diet, exercise and environmental toxins on fibroids. This was touched on very briefly and there was recognition at the end of the book that this is an area that requires some attention and the author will be exploring this in the future.

This was a very interesting and informative book and we recommend it to anyone wanting to learn more about the experience of women with fibroids and how we can move forward and ensure that women get the best care possible.

You Can Claim A Discount on this Book

We’re delighted to say that Holly Bridges is offering a 20% discount on her book to all our blog readers. To claim your discount, visit her website and use the discount code LakeHealth at check out.

Also, the first few people who register to attend our fibroids self-care webinar in October will be entered into a giveaway and one lucky person will win a copy of the book.

Have You Read Flow Fighter?

Have you read this book? We’d love to hear your thoughts. Please leave them in the comments section below or send us an email

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We’re always looking for good public health books to read and have been going through various public health reading lists. One book that kept coming up was Sweetness #9 by Stephan Eirik Clark so we decided to order this book from Amazon and get reading.

Sweetness #9 is a fictional book that focuses on the food industry and explores the impact of additives (in the book they focus on flavour enhancers and artificial colouring) and sweeteners, but the book also touches on issues around food regulation, the approval process and the nature of modern life that leads to the demand for processed, easy to prepare meals. This was an interesting read that opened us up to the possible reality of the inner workings of the food industry and the fact that we’re unlikely to be fully aware of, nor understand, what has been added to the processed foods we eat and the long-term effects of these additives.

Sweetness #9 takes its readers on a 39-year journey as we follow the life of the main character, David Leveraux, who starts his career, after graduating from a food science program with a MSc, as an eager Flavourist-in-Training at a leading global food company. His new job starts well, and he is assigned to the Animal Testing division where his role is to test the long-term toxicity of an artificial sweetener called Sweetness #9 (the testing is a legal requirement before FDA approval can be granted). Whilst conducting these studies on Sweetness #9 David notices some side effects in both rodents and monkeys. Feeling conflicted he isn’t sure what to do, but he eventually reports this to management, but this doesn’t go well, and he ends up being dismissed from the company. This leaves him feeling disillusioned and he wonders what to do with his knowledge of the effects of the sweetener: should he report them to the authorities or not? David keeps quiet and life moves on, but as the years go by Sweetness #9 is approved by the FDA and it is in everything from soft drinks to toothpaste. David continues to feel conflicted especially as he observes, over the next 30 years, society changing, including his own family, who consume a lot of Sweetness #9. The public is gaining weight, ADHD is identified and seems to be on the increase, and anxiety and generalised dissatisfaction is rampant – all these effects are the same effects he observed years before in the rodents and monkeys exposed to Sweetness #9.

Through the main character of David we explore how families’ eating habits have changed in the modern era, how food is manipulated and the politics behind food. We see food scientists question the intentions behind the decisions being made in their industry – why are we really making children’s medicine that tastes like bubble gum and candy apples? Here’s an interesting exchange from the book, although this is fiction you can imagine this type of conversation happening.

                  “I just don’t know if we should be doing this.”

                 “What?”

                  “Making it like candy.”

        “Children’s medicine? So, this is political, is it?”

         “What if kids start trading them on the playground?”

“This is why we have nurses. To dispense medicine. Or are you for sick children now? Hardly a platform I can   support.”

“All right, all right. You’ll have a new formulation by the end of the day. But when I’m called before Congress to explain how America’s children came to be like fatted calves, standing there ready and compliant for the next Rasputin, it’s your name I’ll say while leaning into the microphone.”

This was a scenario where a young flavourist is convinced to make children’s anti-psychotic liquid medicine taste like wild cherry to appease a multi-national pharmaceutical company and thus ensure they keep said company as a client.

A story that ran through the book was one based around Hitler, we struggled at first to see the relevance of this story-line but it all come together nicely at the end, we won’t spoil it for you.  I don’t know how true to life this story-line is, but we did find bits of it fascinating.  In the book, flavourists were recruited during the war, as food was scarce, to create meals that would allow military leaders to have the sensation of having a gourmet meal. So, using meagre resources and their knowledge of chemistry they mimicked food textures and flavours so perfectly that leaders felt they were eating the real thing. Also, in the book, flavourists were recruited during the war for other reasons, to fight the enemy in a subtle way. So, the book really gave a wide-ranging look at the role of flavourists in society.

This was an interesting read and forces readers to reflect on the food we eat and how additives and sweeteners could be affecting the health and wellbeing of our society.

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This week, our guest blogger, Stacey Mensah, finishes off our series on the health benefits of various leisure activities. In previous blogs we’ve explored the health benefits of writing and listening to music and in this current blog Stacey puts the spotlight on reading. 

Good Morning, Everyone! I hope you’re doing well! Today’s post is on the topic of reading but more specifically with the health benefits that are associated with it. I love to read because it allows me to widen my perspective of the world and that has always been important to me. It’s also a great way to mentally escape from that morning commute or even the noisy neighbours. The benefits of reading – for the most part – can be grouped into the external and internal. With the internal referring to how reading changes you from the inside and external being how it affects your outwardly health.  As I’ve gotten older it’s become a lot harder to read as frequently as I would like. The urgent commitments of life always seem to overshadow the casual commitment to read and that frankly is the problem! Keeping these benefits at the forefront of your mind will ensure we no longer view reading as a secondary task. So, here we go:

The Internal Benefits of Reading

Cognitive Stimulation

Reading has shown to slow the progress of Alzheimer’s and Dementia, as it keeps your brain active and prevents it from losing power. This means that it’s great to challenge yourself when choosing a book. I’m about to read the book, ‘Gut’ by Giulia Enders. It’s a book that I’ve tried to read before but of course has challenged me and therefore has stayed on my withering bookshelf. It’s ok if you’re stopping to define words, underlining or simply just stopping for time to internalize. If we don’t challenge ourselves daily, we will not grow as human beings and stagnation is a dangerous thing!

Say Bye-Bye To Stress

Weight Watchers has recently reported that cuddling up with your favourite book can reduce levels of stress hormones called cortisol. Studies have shown that participants who read after partaking in a stressful activity are more likely to have their stress levels drop by more than 50%.

Vocabulary Expansion

This is personally one of my favourite benefits of reading. It certainly beats reading a dictionary, which no one should ever do willingly. Researchers estimate that we learn up to 15% of our vocabulary through reading. This is significant for children, whose vocabulary size is directly related to the books they read. By reading in your spare time you will feel more comfortable reading to your children. Especially if they are asking you to explain concepts, and hey, you may even enjoy it.

Peace

Do I need to say anymore? Reading is a source of tranquillity and with the pressures of everyday life it’s important to not get caught up in the hustle and bustle. Reading is your way of giving yourself a time-out. Time out from the world to find your centre and re-group – making you a stronger individual in the long term.

Improved Focus and Concentration

It’s sad to say that in our technology advanced world, the average attention span has greatly diminished as different platforms are continuously vying for our attention. Within the first few minutes of waking up the average person will check their various social media profiles, check emails, monitor their smart phones and interact with their family and friends. This wouldn’t be so bad if those few minutes didn’t turn into an hour or possibly more. Reading a book allows all of your attention to be focused on the story. Try reading 15 minutes a day before you go to work and I’m sure you’ll see the difference.

The External Benefits of Reading

Read – Your Muscles Will Thank You Later

Reading is a great way to stay focused while working out. A grappling plot may keep you on that cross trainer a little longer than expected. Remember to always keep your posture as failing to do this would result in injury.

Reading Can Encourage Life Goals

I liken reading a biography to the equivalent of getting a cheat sheet on that test you just can’t seem to pass. Someone has basically condensed their life and logic into the pages of a book, that you now happen to be the owner of. Recounting all of the mistakes they made and the lessons they learnt so you don’t have to. Reading about someone inspirational can also motivate you to reach your own goals.

Brighten Up Your Day

Novels drum up positive feelings in more subtle ways. Your favourite character happens to become an extension of you and when they happen to have a triumph and overcome an obstacle your day will suddenly become a lot brighter.

Entertain Yourself While Saving Money

Reading a is a low-budget source of entertainment and can be next too free if you choose to borrow books from your local library. Cue the angel chimes. Libraries have books on every subject and usually rotate their selection so you will always be met with a challenge. If you aren’t able to get to a library however, then you can always download e-books, or a version suitable for your kindle in order to get your fix. There is a topic for everyone, so, please, don’t be shy and get stuck in!

Comment down below and let us know what your favourite books are…

We recently read the children’s book My Magic Scarf and were really moved by it so thought we’d tell you about it.

The Magic Scarf is a very touching book that follows the journey of Tanya who is suddenly diagnosed with cancer.  Through Tanya’s story the book teaches children to have a sense of compassion and it creates an understanding of the importance of family, friends and school in helping children cope with a sudden illness.

The book also, very usefully, creates the opportunity to teach children the importance of speaking up if they don’t feel quite right when Tanya states in the story “Always this silly pain”. This is something that she never mentioned to her parents.

We think this is an important book that helps teachers, parents and carers have a useful discussion with children about a very difficult topic.

You can find out more about this book on Amazon.

On Saturday 7^th February, we attended an excellent and very moving book talk and reading by the author of Let’s Talk About Love (and pain). This was a very honest conversation with an extremely talented and fearless writer which really got us thinking about the effectiveness of writing as therapy.

Author, KLove, has written two books of poetry – Let’s Talk About Love (and pain) and Let’s Talk About Love (and pain 2). These are two books inspired by the author’s childhood challenges, battles with eating disorders and the difficulties of managing complex relationships. KLove describes not having an outlet to express her feelings and being quite insular and introverted meaning that she bottled every emotion and feeling up. Then she discovered writing. KLove described writing as her therapy, an excellent opportunity to explore her feelings without judgement and to personally address her past, present and future in a way that worked for her. Mainstream counselling proved to be unhelpful, but writing seemed to be the liberating, healing therapy that she needed.

This really got us thinking about writing as a way to heal our community. From our experience the African Caribbean community shies away from mainstream therapy which usually involves talk therapy and for more serious conditions drug treatment. We know that there are many people who are going through very difficult life challenges on their own.  Our culture has conditioned us to almost ignore our problems and just soldier on, be tough and keep going. This means many people go through life with unresolved issues and  not dealing with these issues is a problem that can have serious consequences on our mental health.

It’s important for the healing process to address the events that affect our emotions and not ignore them. This is particularly important when we encounter death, serious illnesses, heartbreak, abuse, job loss, etc. Dealing constructively with each problem we face strengthens us, heals us and teaches us. It releases us from the negativity and speeds up the healing process.  Using writing to delve into some of the emotions we are experiencing can be an effective form of therapy helping us analyse a situation and come to terms with it.

Dr Adrian Furnham a professor of psychology at University College London has said the following about writing as therapy:

“Over the past few decades the therapeutic power of writing has been discovered.  The task can require serious, introspection: an attempt to make sense of the past. To examine it from various angles rather than simply try to shift blame onto others. This is much more than simply trying to write pretty sentences. It is about singling out experiences, events and people that contributed to one’s life. Seeing cause and effect, understanding psychological processes can significantly increase self-understanding. Suddenly things become apparent: patterns observed, explanations obvious. Writing is also often redemptive. And it helps because nearly always it involves some commitment to change. Clearly writing does not work for all. But it’s amazingly cheap and effective”

The Mental Health Foundation has found that in the UK  black and minority groups are more likely to be diagnosed with a mental health condition; are more likely to experience a poor outcome following mainstream treatment; and sadly are more likely to disengage from mainstream mental health services, leading to social exclusion and a deterioration in their mental health.  With this in mind we need to find therapies that are effective for our community and writing therapy may be a good option that allows us to deal with our emotions before they deteriorate.

An article, Emotional and physical health benefits of expressive writing  written by Karen Baikie and Kay Wilhelm states that:

“Writing about traumatic, stressful or emotional events has been found to result in improvements in both physical and psychological health.  In the expressive writing paradigm, participants are asked to write about such events for 15–20 minutes on 3–5 occasions. Those who do so generally have significantly better physical and psychological outcomes compared with those who write about neutral topics.”

The authors describe some of the theories as to why writing as therapy is effective: it is a  process of emotional catharsis or venting of negative emotions; it allows people to acknowledge emotions that they are actively suppressing. Suppressing emotions requires effort and acknowledging these emotions reduces the physiological work of suppressing emotions and gradually lowers the overall stress of the body; writing allows a coherent narrative of an event to be developed. This means that over time people can logically process an event by organising and structuring the memory, how they feel about it and learn how to manage their feelings; and repeated exposure to the negative emotional experience, through writing, may slowly cause those negative emotions to diminish.

Writing can be a powerful form of therapy and is worth exploring if you need an outlet for the emotions that you may be experiencing either from the day-to-day challenges of life or more serious traumatic experiences.  Try it and please do let us know what you think.

And, to find out more about KLove’s books you can visit Amazon

 

We’ve just finished reading ‘Eyo’ by Abidemi Sanusi, a Nigerian author we had the pleasure of meeting at the African Literary Evening.

Eyo is an excellent, but heart-breaking book that highlights, very vividly, the issue of child trafficking and sex slavery.

The book tells the story of 10-year old Eyo who is born into abject poverty in Nigeria where she lives with her parents and two siblings in the slums on the swampy marshes of the Lagos Lagoon.

Eyo is trafficked to the UK with her uncle to escape life in the slums with promises of receiving an education and bettering her life. Unfortunately, this is not to be as she finds herself trapped with a cruel family as a domestic servant and then sold into sexual slavery.

Because of the subject matter, this book is hard to read but at the same time you just can’t put it down. The story unfolds in a very interesting and captivating way and gives a disturbing insight into this horrible industry.

What struck me about this book was that it really demonstrates the consequence of not addressing the inequalities that exist in the world. At the root of this issue of child trafficking and sex slavery seems to be poverty.

Poverty means that families desperate to break free of the poverty cycle become vulnerable and easily tricked and exploited by those in the industry and become trapped in a world that can be impossible to escape from.

Another thing that struck me from the book was inaction. There were several points in the book where people noticed that something wasn’t quite right with Eyo and could have intervened and saved her but fear of offending or jeopardising their own peaceful life crippled them, leaving poor Eyo to endure the horrors for much longer than she should have done.

Another painful issue in the book was that some of the abuse Eyo suffered was at the hands of family members as well as women who themselves have children.

Even though this book was fiction it tells of the reality that many young people face and something desperately needs to be done about it. At the end of the book we are encouraged to take action and support organisations like Stop the Traffik and Africans Unite Against Child Abuse. Please do visit the websites of these organisations to find out more about what can be done to help.

This was an excellent book that raises awareness of an important issue and was shortlisted for the 2010 Commonwealth Writers’ Prize.

“….outstanding commentary on the conditions that make life in home countries unbearable, the casual cruelties meted out on strangers as they travel, and the indifference that sustains it all’ – Judging panel on Eyo, Commonwealth Writers’ Prize 2010

This book is definitely worth reading and can be purchased on Amazon

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